Princess Bitch

my supervisors think I’m so hardworking and efficient; they are constantly praising me for getting my tasks done on time. now, as someone with adhd this is actually crazy. However, my role involves doing many small tasks concurrently mixed in with repetitive hands-on actions. They have somehow found the perfect little niche for me - especially since I’m away from most of the other staff and get my tasks via email and can thus get away with wearing earphones, listening to music and don’t have to socialise. I really really hope they hire me full-time bc there’s no way I’m going to find something else that fits this well.

cherryflavoredbutch:

brown works so hard and does so much and everyone is so mean to her. coffee chocolate hair leather tea wood eyes broth a warm coat autumn leaves caramelized onions the crust on a loaf of bread. all things good and warm and kind are brown. bitch!

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rhizobiums-deactivated20230217:

so hard to beat the gay allegations when ur gay

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sailor-arashi:

maykitz:

>“pixies aren’t real lmao are you joking?”

>“wtf one sock from my pairs got lost in the wash again and i can’t find my keys either, i could swear i put them on the rack this time. i must be getting forgetful”

The sock fell between the tub and the frame of the washer. If you pull the front panel off (usually requires tools to do) you’ll find your lost socks piled up in there. This is because there’s a gap between the tub and the body of the washer, and small things like socks can fall into that gap when you’re adding or removing a bunch of clothes at once.

Your keys were stolen by ADHD.

You just don’t get content like this anywhere else

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inkstaindusk:

knight/lord ships are like. what if i would die for you. what if i wanted you to live for me. what if i wanted to touch you but could only be satisfied with being near you. what if i could touch you but only through the safety of our gloves. what if i couldn’t stop thinking about you right next to me. what if i bloodied my hands for you and never looked back at the wreckage. what then

what if i wasn’t allowed to love you. what if i loved you anyway. what if you knew and i knew but we wouldn’t dare to take that step. what if we made meaningful eye contact as i knelt at your feet and devoted my whole being to you. what if i whispered your name for only you to hear

“my lord” is actually something that can be so personal

what if i said “my lord” but i actually meant “my love”

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academia-core:

people

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royalrebelpropaganda:

yeah we put your girl in the fandom and they villainized her beyond comprehension. yeah sorry they took out all the nuance and made the argument completely black and white. yeah my bad. we can’t reverse it. sorry.

We put your girl in the fandom and now she’s just the “one who has the braincell”. Sorry, they made her a “queen” so she can’t be funny or vulnerable or do anything except sigh and wrangle the boy characters. Like a mother, yeah. Yeah, it’s still better than it would have been fifteen years ago. Sorry.

We put your girl in the fandom and paired her with the other girl in the fandom in under the guise of shipping them. yeah sorry it’s just so she’s not ‘in the way’ of the popular mlm ship. like is better than out and out character assassination and misogyny, I guess. I mean there is two girl characters at least? sorry

starfishinthedistance:

I talk to many people who say things like “oh I have trauma but I don’t have PTSD”, but then when I talk to them a little more I realize that they most likely do, they just can’t recognize it as such due to how lacking PTSD awareness is, even beyond the whole “it’s not just a veteran’s disorder” thing.

The main reason they think they don’t have PTSD usually has to do with flashbacks and nightmares, either they have one but not the other or have neither. But here’s the thing, those are only two symptoms out of the 23-odd recognized symptoms. Flashbacks and nightmares are two of the five symptoms under Criterion B (Intrusion), which you only need one of for a diagnosis. The other three symptoms are unwanted upsetting memories, emotional distress after being reminded of trauma and physical reactivity after being reminded of trauma (i.e. shaking, sweating, heart racing, feeling sick, nauseous or faint, etc). Therefore you can have both flashbacks and nightmares, one but not the other, or neither and still have PTSD.

In fact, a lot of the reasons people give me for why they don’t think they have PTSD are literally a part of the diagnostic criteria.

“Oh, I can barely remember most parts of my trauma anyway.” Criterion D (Negative Alterations in Cognition and Mood) includes inability to recall key features of the trauma.

“Oh but I don’t get upset about my trauma that often because I avoid thinking of it or being around things that remind me of it most of the time.” Criterion C (Avoidance) includes avoiding trauma-related thoughts or feelings and avoiding trauma-related external reminders, and you literally cannot get diagnosed if you don’t have at least one of those two symptoms.

“Oh I just have trouble getting to sleep or staying asleep, but I don’t have nightmares.” Criterion E (Alterations in Arousal and Reactivity) includes difficulting sleeping outside of nightmares.

“But I didn’t have many/any trauma symptoms until a long time after the trauma happened.” There’s literally an entire specification for that.

Really it just shows how despite being one of the most well-known mental illnesses, people really don’t know much about PTSD. If you have trauma, I ask you to at least look at the criteria before you decide you don’t have PTSD. Hell, even if you don’t have trauma, look at the criteria anyway because there are so many symptoms in there that just are not talked about.

PTSD awareness is not just about flashbacks and nightmares.

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